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The mother of cancer writes a guide to life for her daughter: the college entrance examination is not the only way out – Li Wenjing, a journalist in the Sohu news, often reads textbooks. Xin’an evening news, Anhui network, taught in rural primary schools for 16 years, Li Wenjing devoted all his love to the children there. Three years ago, she suffered from cancer, began to secretly write diary to her daughter, the life principle, learning, work, love, marriage and other life stages guide written into the diary. Now, in the face of worsening conditions, she said, if you can not carry on, she wants to donate their organs, to achieve the final value. The best time to stay in the rural school, Li Wenjing lived in Shushan lilac community lilac home 65 square meters of affordable housing, husband Wang Kui in a catering business to work. In 1998, Li Wenjing became a teacher at the school in Yingshang County Fuyang Jian Ying Xiang Bridge, until the 2013 attack, taught for 16 years in there. There, the teachers’ offices and dormitories are small bungalows. "The school and I live in another teacher, the teacher office separated about 50 square meters of space for me to do the dormitory, the school away from the town, shopping for thirty or forty minutes, I opened a vegetable garden next to the school, grow their own vegetables." As a Chinese teacher and the teacher, Li Wenjing or children’s intimate "mother", some students dress was torn, she went to her sewing, parents are not around behind the students, she would leave their tuition in his dorm room, they also cook. "There is a student in the class excellent academic performance, the family economic conditions are not good, I will help her to submit the examination registration fee."." Li Wenjing also bought books for students, but she always felt that it was not worth mentioning. "I don’t remember the graduates I’ve been carrying these years, and many of them call me every year."." Li Wenjing smiled happily at all this. The hospital still miss the graduating class of 2013, Li Wenjing felt uncomfortable, went to the county hospital. "At that time, the doctor said I have breast problems, more serious, it is recommended to go to the large hospital review, at that time, I was taking the graduating class, thinking about the use of National Day holiday to go to the hospital to see, after the national day back to class, so as not to delay class." After more than three months of national day, Li Wenjing went back to Hefei and found that he suffered from invasive ductal breast cancer, which had reached four grade. Doctors suggested that the total resection of the left breast should be performed. "At the time that day falling down, more than 50 students will graduate from University, they are waiting for me back, no mother daughter." In the days of hospital chemotherapy, Li Wenjing didn’t tell the students about the serious illness. When I was in hospital, I would prepare lessons and read books every day. I hope I can go back to school after the illness. Who knows the disease continues to deteriorate?. A few months later, the cancer was transferred to the kidney, and the doctor told me I couldn’t work anymore." In January 2015, she had her gall bladder removed because of cancer complications. "Last year, the students in the class called me and invited me back to the graduation ceremony. I just got down from the operating table and pushed them away. I didn’t tell them what happened to me. I was afraid they might worry." Home in diary.

癌症妈妈为女儿写下人生指南:高考不是唯一出路-搜狐新闻 病中的李雯静还经常研读教材。   新安晚报 安徽网讯 在乡村小学任教的16 年里,李雯静把全部的爱都奉献给那里的孩子。三年前她患了癌症,开始偷偷给女儿写日记,把做人道理、学习、工作、恋爱、结婚等人生每个阶段的指南写进日记。现在,面对病情恶化,她说,如果扛不下去,她要捐出自己的器官,实现最后的价值。   最好时光留在了乡村学校   李雯静一家住在蜀山区丁香社区丁香家园65 平米的经济适用房内,丈夫王奎在一家餐饮企业上班。   1998 年,李雯静成为阜阳颍上县建颍乡大桥学校的一名老师,直到2013 年病发,在那里任教16 年。在那里,老师的办公室和宿舍都是小平房。“学校就我和另外一名老师住校,将教师办公室隔开一个约50平米的空间给我做宿舍,学校离镇上远,买东西要走三四十分钟,我就在学校旁边开辟了一个菜地,自己种菜。”   担任语文老师和班主任,李雯静还是孩子们的贴心“妈妈”,有的学生衣服破了,她就找来针线缝补,父母不在身边成绩跟不上的学生,她就留下他们在自己的宿舍里补习,还给他们做饭吃。“班里有个学生学习成绩优秀,家里经济条件却不行,我就帮她交了考试报名费。”李雯静还给学生买过书本,但她始终觉得这些不值一提。   “这些年带过的毕业生我也记不清楚了,很多还每年给我打电话问好。”说起这些,李雯静笑得很开心。   住院时仍记挂毕业班学生   2013 年,李雯静觉得自己身体不舒服,去县城医院检查。“当时医生说我乳腺有问题,比较严重,建议去大医院复查,那时候我正带毕业班,想着利用国庆节假期去医院看看,国庆之后回来上课,这样就不耽误上课。”   三个多月后的国庆节,李雯静回合肥检查发现患上了浸润性导管乳腺癌,已达到四级,医生建议对左乳实行全切手术。“当时觉得天全塌下来,50 多个学生马上要毕业了,他们还等着我回去,女儿也不能没有妈妈。”   在医院化疗的日子里,李雯静没有将重病消息告诉学生。“住院时,我就每天备课,看书,希望病好了还能继续回学校工作。谁知病情持续恶化。几个月后,癌细胞转移到肾上,医生告诉我说不能再工作了。”2015 年1 月,因为癌症引起并发症,她的胆囊被切除了。“去年,班上的学生给我打来电话,邀请我回去参加毕业典礼,我刚从手术台上下来,就推掉了,也没告诉他们我得病的事情,怕他们担心。”   日记里为家人安排好一切   手术、化疗、住院,吃药,十几万的医疗费,除了家里的积蓄和丈夫收入,还从亲戚那里借了不少。去年,丈夫王奎在上班时不小心摔伤了右腿,至今行动不便。“她的病,很多进口药家里支撑不起,就买便宜点的。”王奎说。   13 岁的女儿今年已读初中。“为了家人,我也会努力活下去。”但一个人的时候,她也害怕自己撑不下去,于是背着丈夫,她写了一本日记。“除了我带过的学生,我最牵挂的还有女儿,假如以后我不在了,我把做人的道理,以及学习、工作、恋爱、结婚,人生每一个阶段需要安排好的事情,都写进了日记里。”这本日记是李雯静作为妈妈留给孩子的人生指南,她还在日记里对爱人、父母也做了安排。   “我这一生把所有的希望和梦想都给了我的学生,如果哪一天撑不下去了,我想把自己尚好的器官捐献出去,实现我最后的价值。”李雯静平静地说。张奇元刘亚萍 新安晚报 安徽网记者项磊摄影报道   日记里对女儿说的话   关于高考,心态最重要,不要有压力,人的智力是多方面的,高考不是唯一出路。   与同学相处要懂得包容、礼让。今后和同事相处要懂得感恩、宽容,每日三省吾身。   关于找男朋友,要以爱情为基础,不要金钱至上,要相互扶持帮助、相濡以沫,我和你爸就是这样一路走来。   你结婚的那天,我一定是看不到了,我想给你一些寄语:好好生活,珍惜当下,爱惜生命。   我不在的日子里,要好好孝敬爸爸,常常看望姥姥、姥爷,爸爸今后找后妈的时候,要好好爱你的后妈。相关的主题文章: