Talk about Chinese New Year male country town daughter-in-law is always a woman working in Sohu news-zhongguorentiyishu

Talk about Chinese New Year: male country town daughter-in-law is always a woman working in Sohu news online heat "a meal away Shanghai girlfriend or screenshot end of the Spring Festival holidays, from the rural areas in the city have a daughter-in-law back to the city to work yesterday, Valentine’s Day" a meal away Shanghai girlfriend and then into a hot topic on the table before the Spring Festival, a the post began in the online heat transfer, claiming a well-off family of the Shanghai girl, has a boyfriend, the man working ability is very strong, looks he is very love, but no family, within two years to buy a house with no hope of two people for more than a year, her parents still strongly opposed. In his repeated requests, the Shanghai girl with my boyfriend for the first time to the Jiangxi rural home new year, traffic is not convenient to see the man in a bumpy road, the parents prepared the first meal, the girl was frightened, even when presented with her boyfriend, and immediately returned to Shanghai…… The girl herself posted to the web, one time attracted netizens onlookers and hot, quickly fermented into a hot event, many domestic authoritative media and media, V have forwarded commented on this event, this also let the incident quickly spread in a short time, become detonated the year of the monkey during the Spring Festival a topic event. A large number of netizens comments, there are condemnation of the accused girls, but also support her decisive break up, from the majority of netizens comments, in favor of the two people broke up from the majority. Yesterday, the Spring Festival holiday ended, the city daughter-in-law in the countryside from the parents back to work in the city, Valentine’s day yesterday, "a meal scare away Shanghai girlfriend", and become a hot topic at the dinner table. Yesterday, we invited some husbands in the countryside to listen to their wives who went to the countryside. What impressed us most?. Reporter Dong Lu Pinjin Jie Jie Luo Lv Lei convey Ms. Wang parents are doctors, husband home in Chongqing in remote rural areas, he is the only student in the village, "the henhouse flying out of the golden phoenix". "In Chongqing, in fact, it’s still a long way from the city. It takes four or five hours to go to the town first, then to find Pakistan in the market, and then sit in the village. There were no cell phone signals in the village. All the dialects were spoken, and I couldn’t understand it. Most of the time I was sitting in a daze, or watching TV, and I couldn’t get a few stations……" Ms. Han husband home is also Chongqing rural, the first time to go, two people first to Chongqing, and then turn three cars, only to the village, but the husband home from the village must walk 50 miles mountain road. "All mud roads, no buses, only by tricycles or motorcycles, but also to go a long winding mountain road, very narrow, there is no signal in the mountains, Yamashita is cliff, I sat in the car, legs trembling."." When Ms. Wei first went, the two were not married yet. Husband home in northern Xuzhou rural areas, to Xuzhou, the first transfer to the county seat, the county home there is no direct bus, can only pack black taxi or motorcycle to the town, from the town and then take a tricycle to Haruki. Ms. Wei said, every time she went, there is a want to hurry "escape" feeling. "Too biased, I do not know the road, plus language barrier, want to escape can not escape."……" Ms. Wei said. The most troublesome thing is to go to the toilet"

城里媳妇谈乡下过年:男尊女卑 永远是女人干活-搜狐新闻 网上热传的“一顿饭吓跑上海女友”原帖截图   春节长假结束,城里媳妇纷纷从农村公婆家返城上班   昨天情人节“一顿饭吓跑上海女友”再成饭桌上热议话题   过年前,一篇帖子开始在网上热传,一名自称小康家庭出身的上海女孩,处了一个男朋友,男方工作能力很强,长相自己也很喜欢,但是没有家底,两年内买房无望,俩人处了一年多,女方父母仍极力反对。在男友再三要求下,上海女孩随男友第一次去了其江西老家农村过年,交通不方便一路颠簸,在见到男方父母准备的第一顿饭后,女孩更是被吓了一跳,当即便提出与男友分手,并立即回了上海……   女孩将自己的经历发帖传到网上,一时间引起网友们的围观和热议,迅速发酵成一个热点事件,国内众多权威媒体和自媒体、大V都纷纷转发评论了这一事件,这也让该事件在很快的时间内迅速传播扩散,引爆成为了猴年春节期间的一个话题性事件。   大量的网友评论中,有声讨指责女孩的,也有支持她果断分手的,从大多数网友的评论看,赞成两人从此分手的居多。   昨天春节长假结束,城里媳妇纷纷从农村公婆家返城上班,昨天情人节,“一顿饭吓跑上海女友”再成饭桌上热议话题。   昨天我们也邀请了一些老公在农村的城里媳妇,听听她们去农村公婆家印象最深的是什么。记者 董吕平 金洁洁 罗传达 吕磊   王女士父母都是医生,老公老家在重庆偏远农村,他是村里当年唯一的大学生,“鸡窝里飞出的金凤凰”。   “说在重庆,其实离市区还很远呢,要坐四五个小时大巴,先到镇上,然后在集市找到中巴,再坐到村里。村里连手机信号都没有,讲的全是方言,我听也听不懂,大部分时间就坐着发呆,要么就是看看电视,也收不到几个台……”   韩女士老公家也是重庆农村,第一次去,两人先到重庆,再转三次车,才到村里,但老公家离村口还要走50里山路。“全是泥巴路,没有公交车,只能靠三轮车或摩托车,而且要走很长的盘山公路,非常窄,山里没有信号,山下就是悬崖,我坐在车上,两腿都在发抖。”   魏女士第一次去时,两人也还没结婚。老公家在苏北徐州农村,到徐州,先转车去县城,县城到家里没有直达车,只能包黑出租车或摩托车到镇上,从镇上再坐三轮车到村上。魏女士说,她每次去,都有一种想赶快“逃”的感觉。   “太偏了,我又不认识路,加上语言不通,想逃都没法逃……”魏女士说。   最头疼的是上厕所,还有洗澡   提到第一次的见闻和感受,这三个城市女人不约而同谈到了最让她们头疼的厕所,还有洗澡问题。   王女士老公家有两层房,但厕所是粪坑,气味难闻,连门都没有。“每天我都尽量憋着,实在忍不住才去上厕所,而且厕所在山上,周围很荒凉,每次都吓得我胆战心惊。”   韩女士老公老家管厕所叫“茅坑”,人住的屋子隔壁搭个小棚子,小棚子是个猪圈,养了好多猪,厕所就是猪圈里挖的一个粪坑。   韩女士说,猪圈盖得很矮,走进去要弯着腰,人才能蹲下去,厕所没有门,别人什么时候进来都不知道,她在老公家待了五六天,除非实在憋不住,能不上厕所就不上,“每次我上厕所都会叫上婆婆,在门口把风”。   魏女士老公家苏北农村,也是拿粪坑当厕所用,屋旁砌个小棚子,棚子里就是粪坑,没有门。有人要去蹲坑,走到粪坑前,先咳嗽两声,如果有人在里面,也会回应一下,或说一句“里面有人”。魏女士头一次上厕所,因为不懂“规矩”,径直朝小棚子走了进去,刚好是晚上,快蹲下来才发现里面有人,吓得之后几天都不敢再去。   不管重庆还是苏北,那时很多农村家庭都没有热水器,村里人几乎都是隔好几天才洗一次澡,每次洗澡前水壶烧好开水,倒进木桶或大的洗澡盆,人坐在里面洗。三位女士都说,这种洗澡方式,她们太不习惯了。   方方面面都能感受到巨大的城乡差异   韩女士从小家里用的碗筷都很精细,炒菜样式多分量少,到了农村,吃饭大盆大盘,“吃个土豆炖粉条,就是一口大锅里炖,然后一桌子人围着一个大碗,每人都伸筷子进去……”   王女士老公老家重庆,爱吃火锅。“虽然从火锅里夹菜也有公筷,但他们有时用这双筷子夹东西之后,就放在自己碗里了,有次我提醒说这是放在火锅里公用的,结果公公婆婆习惯性地把筷子放嘴巴舔舔干净,然后又顺手放在火锅里……”   农村人吃饭不像城里那么丰富,过年吃得最多的就是猪肉,而且是自己杀猪自己吃。   王女士记得那年去老公家,一个星期吃的就是一头猪,吃完肉吃内脏,吃完内脏吃蹄子,今天吃剩下的留在明天吃,明天吃不完又留到后天。“农村人特别是上了年纪的人怕浪费,不管是一盘菜还是一个火锅,哪怕煮烂了,炒透了,一定要吃完才行。”   魏女士说,在老公老家,吃饭时女人几乎都不上桌,甚至有的地方要等男人吃完后,女人才开始吃,然后男人坐着聊天,女人收拾碗筷。   魏女士第一次去老公家也是过年时,跟着老公到长辈家拜年,老公一进门就跪下了,说这是当地风俗,还要她也跟着下跪,当时把魏女士弄得很尴尬。“我从来没看见过拜年要这么拜的,真受不了。”   魏女士说,老公家四面透风,冬天特别冷,农村人习惯早起,婆婆每天六点多就起床,而且起床后,都会习惯性地来敲她房门,让她要起来干活,“很奇怪的是,我婆婆从来不让她女儿起床,为什么非要让我起来呢?   “后来我发现,儿子在家里地位特别高,有点男尊女卑的味道,不管是烧饭洗碗还是倒茶拖地,永远都是女人干活,男人坐在椅子上粘了胶水一样。”   “我老公在他们家地位很高,婆婆还主动让我倒茶给老公喝,说这是规矩。”王女士说。   最看重的一点,其实还是男人的品质   说过了以上种种不喜欢不适应,三个女人也不约而同提到了一点,农村人待客的淳朴热情。   “他们会把他们认为最好的东西拿出来给我,比如家里的腊肉,把小公鸡宰了给我吃……   “那里的蔬菜也比城里的新鲜,吃在嘴里都是甜的,空气质量更不用说了……”   最终,她们都和老公或当年的男友走在了一起。三个人都觉得,最看重的一点,其实还是各自男人的品质,老实、“潜力股”、顾家。   三个女人也都说到当初的想法:反正也不会经常去婆家住,去了也就住个几天,以后还是两个人一起,在城市扎根生活,何必在意一点点的“委屈”?   王女士说,刚结婚时老公只是科员,现在已经是研究所领导了,所有的钱和工资卡都交给她。“他可能就是用这种方式表达当初我选择了他吧,反正我觉得两个人要相互体谅,才会相互依赖。”   他们两人在杭州靠着自己的努力,买了房买了车,王女士说她一直不明白,为什么老公的老家那么穷,他还有他那些同学朋友,还是那么愿意回去?   有一次,王女士和老公一起回到他从小住的老屋时,突然间明白了。   “我老公非常高兴甚至很自豪地看着一面老墙,那些泥巴墙上糊着80年代的破旧发黄的报纸,报纸上满满都是老公小时候在上面画的画,那些全是他小时候的回忆……”相关的主题文章: